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I’ve been thinking a lot about words lately. Maybe it is because of how present I’ve tried to be (a relatively new approach). Maybe it is because when I am present, I want to tell you all about it (not so new for this external processor, but still…)? Maybe it is because when the world feels like it is on fire all around us (and it is), words help us heal and soothe and connect? I don’t know the answers to any of it, but words have been getting me through lately – in poetry, songs, articles, quotes, and emails.

Perhaps all of these words also help us make sense of our feelings so they don’t just live inside of us ready to burst out at any moment? I, for one, am thankful for that (and you should be too if you to spend any length of time with me).

I posted on Facebook that my favorite word right now is “tender” or/and “tenderness.” Something about that word helps me think about the way I want to show up for others and for myself. Tender isn’t soft. It’s something bigger and deeper and more intentional and I’ve landed there many times lately (thankfully).

I was so pleased to see others responding to my post with their favorite words. Here’s what they said:

Thoughtful

Intentional

Grateful

And.

Grit (healthy) vs Grind (unhealthy)

Lovely

Grateful

Curiosity

Behold

Grace

Yet.

Peace

I even received a book recommendation: “The Whole Language: The Power of Extravagant Tenderness” by Father Greg Boyle.

Just an incredible list of words for this really hard time and a belief that words can connect us with others and all that is living inside of our minds and hearts. A reminder to use our words as acts of love in rebellion of hate, war, and suffering.

And the algorithm sure works because I found this article in my newsfeed: 18 Beautifully Descriptive Words That You’ll Want to Learn and Use in Your Life

Now I think I have some new favorite words.

Sending love and gratitude,

Amanda